I help people see the pattern that has been running underneath everything that hasn’t worked out in their lives and then build something differently that actually works.
For when you know what you want but keep not getting there. We gather the stories from your own lived experience from when things didn’t go according to plan and you felt you ended up on familiar, unwanted ground. You leave these stories with me and I analyse them for the pattern of your dysfunctional behaviour: the steps you unconsciously take in good faith that lead you to repeat your pattern.
Once you are aware of your pattern we work together to build things differently. There will be a concept behind the pattern that you subconsciously hold to be true about yourself and an ideal that you work towards every time you go for something in your life. The ideal is a protective mechanism that stops you finding out if the concept you hold about yourself is true.
For me, the concept is I am not allowed to have what I want in life. My ideal leads me to think I need people around me to be on board and agree my ideas are legitimate and good for them to exist. It looked like being a team player, a supportive wife, a collaborator, an empath. Actually it was a very elegant way of never having to find out if I could have something just because I wanted it.
6 one hour sessions for £497
I help people see the pattern that has been running underneath everything that hasn’t worked out in their lives and then build something differently that actually works.
For when you know what you want but keep not getting there. We gather the stories from your own lived experience from when things didn’t go according to plan and you felt you ended up on familiar, unwanted ground. You leave these stories with me and I analyse them for the pattern of your dysfunctional behaviour: the steps you unconsciously take in good faith that lead you to repeat your pattern.
Once you are aware of your pattern we work together to build things differently. There will be a concept behind the pattern that you subconsciously hold to be true about yourself and an ideal that you work towards every time you go for something in your life. The ideal is a protective mechanism that stops you finding out if the concept you hold about yourself is true.
For me, the concept is I am not allowed to have what I want in life. My ideal leads me to think I need people around me to be on board and agree my ideas are legitimate and good for them to exist. It looked like being a team player, a supportive wife, a collaborator, an empath. Actually it was a very elegant way of never having to find out if I could have something just because I wanted it.
6 one hour sessions for £497